If you are an enthusiastic fan and a follower of the Twilight Saga and the love team of Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson, then you may have shared some negative reactions from the infidelity that the involved parties had made that shocked not just the world, but especially their respective partners in life. This cheating issue is more of a vicious venom that could really affect their families and children, especially on the part of the Director of Snow White and the Huntsman named Rupert Sanders. It was not the first time that people have heard news about a cheating husband over his spouse or vice-versa. It is also happening outside the entertainment world, to common people, and even within our families. To all couples, whether you are married or not, you have reaffirmed a relationship which is built because of love and trust. Nonetheless, how would you know if your partner is doing something silly behind your back? What are the 10 signs that your partner is cheating on you? Learn and be sensitive on these warnings and hints:
10. Instinct
Women are not just entitled to an almost accurate gut feeling or human instinct. Anyone has the ability to perceive if a partner is up to something or not, but the ladies have that special gift. Almost always based on the stories that have been shared by many couples who have experienced cheating had discovered their partners affairs, all by a simple unexplainable feeling.
For most women, they are much concerned on the detail expenses at home from the electric bill down to spending that spouses do in the office and for transportation. If you are accustomed to typical expenses that you have been spending and there are sudden unexplained receipts and increased collection in mobile phone minute charges, then you better analyze and compare.
If there is a sudden secrecy when it comes to financial savings like amount of deposits in the bank if you have one, an abrupt change in the ATM password, or a request of separate accounts? You have to ask your spouse why, or observe further before making an action.
This is the common sign if there are consistent inconsistencies on the answers or reasons that a spouse gives to the other. For instance, like going late at home and not being able to attend special family events or kids activity.
If your partner tends to spend time or hang out with friends, especially if it’s with the opposite sex from work, then it’s time for you to think twice, particularly if it happens too often than enough.
Special time together as a couple is one way of enriching the love that you have for each other. Hence, if that fire or excitement has gradually waned on his or her part, then that’s the time that you discuss the problem. However, if your partner will rationalize work-related problems like “I’m tired”, “I don’t have time”, and other excuses to give an ample justification in avoiding intimate moments with you, then you have to be worried because it is one of the big signs of infidelity.
Talking before you sleep and sharing what happened the whole day where one of you has been out of the house working or both of you have been busy in other tasks, must be shared to each other as one way of assuring to your partner that your day went well and fine. Hence, if simple things cannot be talked about, even in as short as 15 to 20 minutes, then, don’t be satisfied with the answer of “same as usual”, which would be followed by “let’s sleep”. Another thing, if your partner rarely texts or calls you and could not express the language of love that you do, it’s already a big sign.
It’s good that your spouse makes himself or herself attractive or presentable, since it is part of personal grooming. Hence, if your partner changes the usual routine that he or she has before leaving the house like checking too much on the mirror, buying new clothes which are not needed, becoming more vain, and other things, then it’s time for you to be alert.
Does he or she spend more time on his or her mobile phones and computers when he or she gets home rather than with you and your kids? If this sign happens too much than frequent, then you have to think more than twice. Who are those people that he or she spends his or her time so much on phone? Is he or she too discreet on personal stuff like cellphones and laptops and he or she could not let you check them? Darn, that’s the biggest hint that you could ever have.
1. Mood Swings
Mood swings are common to humans that everyone has that. There are times that you don’t feel good because of factors like work, stress, problems, and other that influence your behavior and attitude greatly. However, if your partner is only different to you, but to everyone else he or she is acting okay, then be alarmed.
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